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May/14/2008 

What are Congenital Gender Variations ?


Some of us hear the above title and immediately think this is only for Intersex and “other”  conditions.


Not so. Let’s break the wording down.

“Congenital” basically means of what we were born with. When I looked up congenital in the Word documents’ thesaurus, they describe it as present at birth, innate, inborn, inherited and hereditary. There is all kinds of Congenital variations including Congenital Heart palpitations, congenital blood disease, congenital diabetes, and so forth. These are examples of something that runs in a family. Then there are the non-heredity conditions such as Klinefelter’s syndrome, limb variations, Turner’s Syndrome and personality traits for an example.

Gender Variations  - most think of it as anything outside of the binary xx and xy but in fact it is all the genetic chromosomes. Think of it, xx is a variation as is xxy, xo, xxyy, xxxy, xyy, xy and so on. Even xxy is not in the binary but perhaps a combination of xy and xx or a gender variation in itself, the arguments go on forever. With the chromosome out of the ordinary binary system, we get those who have combined genders (not unheard of in the realm of xxy) or a predominant gender. 

There is nothing to fear because in essence, this is the way the societies were built from. Some keep their gender a secret, some reveal only a certain part and some go all out and expose themselves to the menace of the world and society regardless. It’s all good.

In ancient times to present, those with two genders were revelled by mysticism and treated special or burned at the stake. Indian legend talks about a “two spirit” and were sought after to become their spiritual leaders in the forms of medicine men or women. There is a definite advantage to being a two spirit, they can understand not only the two distinct genders, but see the world though a combined thought which encompasses not only the male and female, but an extra understanding. The world can certainly use more of those as each gender have blinders to certain things.

So really, we are all a Congenital Gender variation, even those who are born xy male and born xx female. 

I think it’s time we stop assuming what relatively new things are and start looking into what their function(s) are without frightful assumptions that only serve to push people away without reason.
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May/09/2008 

About me


This will basically be a short intro as I am working on something a bit more comprehensive.

My name is Andre and presently I am 46 years of age. I was diagnosed at age 22 with Klinefelter's syndrome and was prescribed way too much (T)estosterone. My journey from there was a roller coaster of good high points in my life and some very low points. I was an angry person with everything to prove, always looking behind my back as to who would want something of me.

I am not that frightened anymore and I had changed my ways a while back when I came onto an XXY site that made me take a good hard look at myself. I decided then to be positive without my eyes closed.

Three to fours years later, I had opened my own sites and keep on bringing the message that everyone is important to someone, including themselves because that is what I had concluded with myself.

I am an open person who loves to hear for others for a good conversation. There is one thing I cannot stand is inebriated people trying to talk to me. I don't even play any game that suits their fancy as the game would not be a fair one. I love a challenge but not under the influence of anything. I did too much of that and had developed a distaste for it.

So, aside from that, I love talking to all kinds of people. I welcome any questions about anything including Klinefelter's and Intersex.

More about those later.

Andre

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